Blaming our partner or another person in any relationship is a natural human tendency. This tendency springs from the varied behaviours we have been exposed to as a child. An angry parent blaming “this glass of water fell because you were not careful” sets a narrative of our dialogues in all adult …
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“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”- Maya Angelou Many say Relationships can get complicated, I personally don’t disagree with that statement but I also feel Relationships are our Teachers. Every human being learns …
Uncertainty – The New Reality
We are all surrounded by extreme uncertainty with everything that is going on around us i.e. the pandemic, people losing jobs, people moving, financial stress, health stress, loosing loved ones, etc. It is hard to fathom that life could come to this, as there is such a lack of certainty in anything. …
Keeping Score
In any game where there are two teams involved, there is a need of keeping scores as the idea is to always have more points than your opponent. Let me ask you, do you think this works in relationships? The answer is a BIG NO. Relationships are not like measuring cups where every action is …
What is the pace of your life?
One day I was sitting when it suddenly stuck me, when people say I have decided to slow down in life, what does this really mean? After some thinking it came to me, that the deeper understanding of this really means to be PRESENT. When we are running to compete with others or life (when …
Expectation vs Connection
In the last decade or so, I have felt the increasing burden of expectations that people have from SELF and OTHERS. Whether it is to do with work, relationships, self, there are huge expectation standards. And if not achieved, only leads to disappointment. I don’t think having expectations is a …
Betrayal
We all have gone through the feeling of betrayal either by betraying someone or when someone betrays us. Agree? Unfortunately this is the cycle of life where some of us have to go through this in order to grow, go beyond and get a deeper understanding. It also makes one a more compassionate …